Tuesday, April 28, 2015

GOAL SETTING: puts you over




A victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of setting and achieving goals -  Og Mandino


God is a goal getter. He sets goal and has plans. Successful students must have goals, they must plan their goals. It could be short term or long term. It could just be goals of as little as organizing your time table, managing your time at home. It could be goals of leadership. You need to have plans. If you want to become a doctor or an engineer, you need to know when you want to achieve that, how long do you plan to take to become that? What are your goals?

After setting your goals you need to set priorities. We need to focus on a particular thing we want to achieve. You need to set goals and prioritize them.

A goal is something in your heart that you intend to achieve.
Goals could be short – three months or six months. For example, a student who has JAMB to write need to set a short term goals which begin as at the time he purchase the form. It could be a few months.

I wrote my academic goals before every semester – Obaseki, first class  graduate, Uniben.

A student who wants to be a medical doctor has a long term goals because he has to plan. Goals setting come with planning.

It is one thing to set your goals and another thing to plan them. This where prioritization come in play.

If you run a survey on students about their goals, you’ll be amazed that over 90% can’t tell you their goals in life.
Also, out of the 10% that tells you something reasonable they don't have a deadline. Its just mere wishful thinking!

You need to have a goal. You need to have the planning. You need to have a timeframe for the achievement of your dreams.

I expect the Nigerian student to learn and begin to set goals. I expect youngsters to start setting goals. When you begin to set goals from secondary schools you end up becoming better mothers and fathers.

Everything begins from childhood. You need to start now!
Goal setting is an intrinsic part of our lives as humans. If we don't set goals we will not achieve anything.

Some once said “if you don't know where you’re going, everywhere looks like where you are going.”

Students need to learn how set goal, plan and prioritize to hit their target. It is obvious that if you don't set goals, you don't know when you even hit your target. It ultimately determines how we reform our world and become highly successful in life.

Successful students set goals. They are visionaries. They are goal-getters. So, set your goals today, go for them plan, prioritize and get things done.

Goal Setting Methods

1) Think thoroughly about what you desire or want to achieve
2) Get a piece of paper and write it/them down
3) Arrange them in other of importance and urgency
4) Think again on each of the goals you have written down
5) Write out five ways for each goal on how you intend to achieve them.
6) Out of all the goals you have written down pick out the one goal of them all that once achieved will help you achieve the rest (MDP)
7) Focus on this one MDP-Major Definite Purpose.
8) Ensure all your goals are SMART -  Specific, Measurable , Achievable, Realistic and Time-bound.

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Succeeding as a student, you need this First:


 POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE

                   Whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve - Napoleon Hill

The first secret to becoming an outstanding student in life is having a positive metal attitude. Successful students have a positive mental attitude. Successful students all over the world believe in success.

Proverbs 23:7 “As he thinketh in his heart, so is he”. Every student must have a positive mental attitude towards life. You cannot achieve what you do not believe in. successful students believe they can achieve greatness. Personal belief in success is a function of your core values.

To become an outstanding student in every area of life, your belief system must be made straight. Failures in life first of all fail in their minds. Most students who don't know a particular subject or don't do well in a particular course, fail because they have conceived in their minds the failure before hand. 

Having a positive mental attitude helps your morale and the way your carry yourself through life. It helps to strengthen your self esteem and ultimately positions you to reach greater heights in life achievements.

You have to believe in yourself, your world and your nation. You have to believe in success. You've got to believe in your dreams that they are achievable. Self belief is the foundation. You have to believe you can be that agent of positive change. Yes! You can do all things.

“Whether you think you can or cannot, either way you are right” – Zig Ziglar

The major difference between an A student and a B student is in the way they think. In fact most geniuses all over the world have very low IQ- Intelligence Quotient.

Quit being pessimistic in life. Enough of the self doubt that has held you bound. You can become that which you desire and believe in. All you need is trust your instincts enough. Trust God to carry you through. Be bold and courageous. It’s vital for the achievement of success as a student.

A positive mental attitude shapens your belief system and delivers a great destiny into your hands. Dear student, that dream is possible. Go for it. Nothing can stop you now, as you apply the other secrets, you can be assured of becoming very successful beyond your wildest imaginations.

Ways of Developing A Positive Mental Attitude

1) Think of yourself very powerful: Learn to believe in yourself as someone with greatness and feel great admiration for yourself.

2) Accept responsibility: Choose to move on and stop complaining about everything in your life. People still look up to you for little help even as a student.

3) Be in charge: Don't allow life to toss you to and fro. Be strong and take charge of things. Don't be carried away. Handle every things with some sense of maturity and calmness.

4) Believe you're the best: Trust your abilities to deliver and succeed. Don't look down on yourself. Nobody does it better than you.

5) Stay cool and calm: Don't get worked up when things go wrong or our of plan. Be reserved in manner and speech. Talk less and act confidently.

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